Living with
diabetes can be discouraging, but a support group can provide an encouraging
community
by Tesha M. Christensen
Living with diabetes can be very discouraging, according to
Longfellow resident Mary Ellen Crolley. She should know. She’s had type 1
diabetes for 37 years. For the last three, she’s had an insulin pump and continuous
blood glucose monitor.
“To stay healthy with this disease requires more effort
than most diseases, more self-care,” Crolley explained. “It's hard work,
and you have to keep it up year after year, so it's easy to get discouraged.”
Three and a half years ago, Crolley began helping co-lead a
Diabetes Support Group that meets on the second Wednesday of each month at
Hiawatha School Park from 6:30 to 8 p.m.
“It's helpful to share encouragement with taking care of
diabetes,” observed Crolley.
“We encourage each other to exercise and eat healthy. Also,
it's good to see the same people every month; it feels like community.”
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Crolley was asked to help lead the group by Carol Engelhart, a
certified diabetes nurse specialist who works at Health Partners
– Riverside. “I started the group with Mary Ann Crolley, Anita Martinez
and Bev Young because I saw a need for a continual monthly support group in the
South Minneapolis neighborhood,” explained Engelhart. “I am passionate about
people getting the help they need to stay healthy with diabetes.”
She added, “I asked people who have had leadership experience
in community groups, teaching community education classes, church or their work
to be co-leaders. A support group does not work well unless there is a core
group of leaders who have the disease assisting in leading it. It also
really helps to have a diabetes expert.”
WHAT A MEETING LOOKS
LIKE
The group is for those with diabetes and also for their loved
ones. Attendees range from pre-diabetes, gestational diabetes, types 1 and 2.
Each meeting starts with a check-in time that includes both
an introduction and something of interest. “Attendees can share what is going
well or not going well in their daily lives with diabetes in a confidential
group experience,” said Engelhart.
She stressed, “Everybody’s journey is their own.”
During check-in time in July, she reminded attendees to
listen and accept each other’s stories. “We are all listening to each other. We
are all there for each other,” Engelhart remarked.
The group frequently has professional guest speakers,
including a dietician and an endocrinologist. Currently, Engelhart, a diabetes
nurse specialist, is in the middle of a two-part educational series on
“Juggling It All.” The July meeting focused on “How Your Body Metabolism” works
normally and how it works with diabetes. It included information on the body,
food, monitoring targets, and more.
The second meeting on Aug. 13 will include information on the
latest medications, the standard medications, an emergency plan and a circle of
support to stay healthy.
Other topics at meetings have included:
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How
do you eat or pack a healthy lunch?
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What
would you do to treat a low blood sugar?
Anybody can suggest or request topics.
“The educational meetings are top-notch,” stated
Crolley. “I recently learned from an endocrinologist why some foods raise
my blood sugars more than expected.”
“We have
speakers and Q&A time, and we have time to talk amongst ourselves,”
observed Anita Martinez. “Often we divide up into smaller discussions groups
according to how we treat our diabetes; for example, a small group using
insulin pumps or insulin injections, one using various oral medications, and
one focused on diet/exercise.”
When her blood sugar is high, Trisha VanErt’s 18-month-old
Black Labrador Faith alerts her by nuzzling her chest. It’s one of the ways
VanErt is managing her diabetes. (Photo by Tesha M. Christensen)
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INSPIRATIONAL AND
HELPFUL
Martinez was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes 38 years ago.
When the group began, she lived in the Minnehaha neighborhood of Nokomis
East.
“It helps me to know that there are others facing the same
and similar challenges as I am. It's interesting and inspiring to hear how
others handle things,” Martinez observed.
TOWARDS GREATER HEALTH
“It takes commitment and usually support of others to
stay on track with a healthy lifestyle for diabetes,” said Engelhart.
According to Engelhart, a healthy lifestyle includes choosing
activities that decrease stress, such as yoga, reading, and quiet music. Daily
movement such as walking, swimming, biking, chair exercises, and gym classes are
also important. There are free or low-cost senior classes available through
Longfellow Seniors, Nokomis Seniors and the Minneapolis Community Education
Department. One of the most important lifestyle choices you can make for
healthy living with diabetes is eating natural, healthy foods from the farmers market
and the grocery produce aisle, she pointed out. Portion control is critical.
Avoiding regular pop with high fructose corn syrup, baked goods, deep fat fried
foods, candy and chips is equally important.
“What is truly contributing to diabetes today is high
fructose corn syrup,” said Engelhart. For many years, people thought that
low-fat diets were the answer, but then everyone ate too many carbohydrates and
put on weight. “Weight is the issue,” said Engelhart. That makes the amount a
person eats very important.
She pointed out that if a diabetic ate a controlled diet,
their own body might be able to handle the sugar they take in and they might
not need as much medication.
Regular meals are important, a way to avoid the “glucoaster,”
as Martinez labeled it.
Engelhart pointed out that there are two common symptoms of
undiagnosed diabetes: thirst and lack of energy.
“We are here for you if you have diabetes and want help to
live healthy!” said Engelhart.
To learn more, contact sponsor Longfellow Healthy Seniors at
612-729-5799 or email carolengelhart@gmail.com.
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TIPS FOR DIABETICS
• Carol Engelhart: Juggling it all is hard on your own. Find
the help you need to live a life in healthy balance of exercising, health
eating, and reducing your stress in addition to the help from your medical
clinic.
• Anita Martinez: Keep on trying to do the best you can. If
you think you are too much or too many carbs, just try again at the next meal.
Move as much as possible throughout the day, and remember that house and yard
chores and playing with the kids count as exercise, too. During any and all
holidays, remember that it's a holiDAY, not a holiWEEK or a holiMONTH!!!
• Mary Ellen Crolley: Find a way to exercise that you enjoy. Find
a buddy to go on walks with, or bike or swim, or take a movement class, or try
a competitive sport. It doesn't matter what, it matters that you do
something to get your heart rate up. Scary movies don't count.